Are You Better at Giving Advice Than Taking It?
Do you have thought of this questions?
May be yes ,may be not .
“The first rule about advice: Take it with a healthy pinch of salt. Nobody (not even your mom, dad or spouse) has the context you have. Nobody is free of biases. We all love our own thought processes and generally believe we are right….
PS: If you find yourself sharing your perspective or giving advice, state your biases. It helps the person on the other end.”
Advice is a funny thing.
Some people seem to have a constant surplus of it, and offer it non-stop to those around them, even when it is unsolicited or unwelcome.
Others (recalling my post “Are You an Askhole?”) are on the receiving end of lots of advice from others, but they rarely take any of it.
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